Madam Lira

O mnie

Ways we can meet:
1) Dinner dates and companionship (two different kinds)
2) Fashion shoots, fetish shoots or erotic lingerie modelling (several possible setups)
3) Kink lessons, either hands-on practice for couples or theory sessions. (There are 33 ready-made topics to pick from, and I'm happy to prepare material on something new if you ask.)
4) Femdom sessions (more than 70 possible kinks)
5) Good primal sex with me as a teasing, dominant bottom (21 possible activities)
6) Respectful, equally pleasurable exploration of each other's bodies. Toys included, I'll bring them. (21 possible activities)
7) Intimacy guidance for virgins and less experienced people who want to try kinks that are new to them. (17 possible activities)
8) Group play, threesomes and foursomes (17 possible activities with women, 21 with men. You bring your own partners. I DON'T have anyone to join me for sex. I work with existing couples, throuples and groups who want sex with more than two people and need me to take part or to help them handle consent, communication and boundaries.)
For obvious reasons, the list of what we can do within each option comes by message once you tell me which of the eight you're interested in. Sending you eight lists with over a hundred activities between them in one go would be silly.

Hard limits:
CIM/deepthroat/swallowing/any penetration without a condom/licking anyone's ass/anal on Me/watersports on Me/copro/submitting to a man.
Do NOT ask Me for any of these unless you'd like to be blocked!

How to approach me:
1) I'm drawn to sincere, honest people who adore me and respect my time, my skills, my experience and who I am. That's what I want to be chosen for. So please read my whole profile carefully and take everything in it into account.
2) Crudeness, rudeness, arrogance, shallowness and objectification of any sort give me an allergic reaction.
3) Book My time at least 5 hours ahead, and a day or a week ahead is even better.
4) Good hygiene is non-negotiable. If it's lacking, certain activities and kinks may be declined or stopped, with no refund.

How to book me:
1) Tell me where you found my profile.
2) Tell me which option from the "Ways we can meet" list you're after.
3) Let me know the dates and times you have in mind.
4) Let me know whether you want incall or outcall.
Sharing your name and introducing yourself politely is always welcome and truly appreciated, and it really does improve your chances of meeting me.

Never, ever:
1) Call Me. Turning something that could have been a text, an e-mail or a paid meeting into a phone call, and expecting My full attention on the spot, is disrespectful of My time and the quickest way to be ignored or blocked. My live, undivided attention and My voice are privileges kept for paid meetings and paid communication.
2) Haggle for free pictures beyond the ones on my profile, or for lower rates. Freeloaders get nothing from me. You're welcome to ask about My paid subscription page, though! That's also the right place for detailed questions about My equipment and how sessions or meetings work.
3) Hurry Me to reply. If you have manners, this needs no explaining; pushing people to rush is plainly rude.
4) Ask for anything on My hard limits list: CIM/deepthroat/swallowing/any penetration without a condom/licking anyone's ass/anal on Me/watersports on Me/copro/submitting to a man.
5) Call me "baby", "sweetie" or any other silly, gross, belittling pet name. To you I'm "Madam Lira" or "Lira", not some patronising nonsense!
Break any of these rules and I'll point it out once. If you don't apologise and do better, I'll walk away from the meeting or the chat for good with no refund, and where needed I'll block and report you for disrespect and pushiness!
I'm also part of the local sex worker community, and there are blacklists, so be assured: call Me a "bitch" or any other insult, demand what I don't offer, or disrespect Me on purpose, and that lack of manners will cost you meetings with anyone in Latvia.

About me and what I love:
Hi, lovely people, I'm Lira! I'm a very artistic, seductive person who adores deep conversation and passionate sex built on respect, acceptance and real connection.
In bed I'm Dominant or vanilla with men and switch or submissive with women, and a sensual hedonist through and through. I love a good tease, giving and receiving pleasure in all sorts of ways, and, with consent, I like calling myself and other beautiful, sensitive people who enjoy sex and react intensely "slut" and "whore" as neutral or affectionate words. Be ready for that, and have fun with me!) Safety and consent are the foundation of everything I do. If you want a responsible provider who knows what she's doing, pays attention to everyone's boundaries, and is humble enough to admit she doesn't know it all and never stops learning, I'm your girl.
If all you want is a quick fuck, and you respect me enough to read my profile and follow the booking steps, you may still get some of my time, if I happen to be in the mood that day.
Let's have fun!
Since September 2024 I've also been the main manager of a local kink dungeon, so I'm there more often than at home. That means for anything other than femdom sessions, kink lessons and fetish or lingerie erotic photo and video shoots, outcall is the only option.
If you're asking for a sexual option, you're not asking for incall!
Outside the bedroom I love meeting all kinds of people and hearing about what drives them. Deep, sincere connection and trust mean a lot to me. Your life, your travels, your work, your funny stories and your passions are what make a great date, and hopefully more dates after it. I enjoy long, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent conversations, ideally over dinner in a good restaurant or a couple of drinks in a pub, I'm pretty flexible. Italian and Greek are my favourite cuisines, and I have a weakness for a good semi-sweet red wine.
These days my favourite things to talk about are kink and sex education, neurodiversity, power dynamics and intersectional activism. On the lighter side, stage art, music, psychology and art in general.
People tell me I'm very accepting and understanding, and at the same time honest, direct, fair and protective of my own boundaries and everyone else's, and that's exactly the atmosphere I'll make sure we have when we meet.
More than anything I love creating experiences, leading people into new territory and showing them fresh sides of themselves, of life and of the moment. Whether I do that through a deep talk, through sex or through kink hardly matters to me.
It always warms my heart to watch people grow, change and explore new parts of themselves with me guiding them. I love seeing the people around me flourish.